I’m Stacey Barnes

COACH| MENTOR| MIRROR

I am a creative, empath, intuitive, with a passion for harnessing emotional wellness/integrity within myself and being in service to others. Life/Well-Being Coach

Cancer sun • Cancer Moon • Sag rising

My Story


Being so sensitive I had always felt misunderstood, mostly by myself in my younger years. It wasn’t until 33 when I went into my first solo therapist session when I was asked,

“When did I lose my self-worth”?

Gulp… I was speechless.

Doing my best to protect my sensitivities I built a strong armor and lived externally full of control, perfectionism, and a very disconnected sense of self. Eventually the armor no longer protected me, it became my own self imposed imprisonment. In my early 30’s my external world around me started to crumble, I realized I needed help, instead of sourcing outward for validation it was time for me to look within myself.

I knew in my heart that this inward work was not a solo job, I needed help, guidance from a professional. This was the first steep I took into self-accountability, self-love, self-curiosity, and self-healing.

While navigating thru my healing journey with the support of therapists and energetic guides, I became very aware of my limiting self-beliefs and my behavioral patterns that kept me small and not in right-relationship with myself or others.  I began to reparent my inner child, I acknowledged my sensitives and instead of seeing them as a hinderance, I built a new relationship with my feelings and emotions, I created space for them to be felt and expressed, I now honor my empathic gifts.

At first it was a whisper, 6 years into my therapy, then whisper became a deep all-knowing, creating inspired-action to step into my purpose. By reconnecting my authentic self, my purpose became very clear to me… I am here to offer support within a safe container for others with integral guidance and reflection.

In 2021 enrolled in online integrative wellness coaching school to deepen my knowledge and skillset within the coaching felid. I graduated in May 2022 and have received my coaching certification thru Zura Health Academy.

I am honored to offer my Life/Well-Being Coaching Services , click here to learn more about my offerings.

My Values


01

SELF-AWARENESS

Putting in the work to get to know self. To be able to show up fully, with integrity and authenticity - Both for self and others.

02

Expression

Expression offers space for connection, creativity and allows our feelings and voices to have purpose. Our emotional landscape offers many pathways asking us to express our authenticity.

03

Compassion

I combine self-awareness with empathy exuding warm, supportive energy with healthy space between me and my clients.

What People are saying

  • Stacey is my mentor, coach and one of the most remarkable humans on my journey thus far.

    Stacey is a LIGHT, an honest one who brings your vibration higher. She guides from within. All I can say is be prepared to have the universe start to connect the dots once you set the intention. Thankful for her being placed into my life." 

    - Laura Marie
    1:1 coaching client

  • With you I feel truly seen, you provide a judgment free space where I can grow and evolve emotionally and spiritually.

    Stacey, working with you has been an absolute pleasure. Your wisdom, unconditional support, love and light have been such a blessing in my life. With you I feel truly seen, you provide a judgment free space where I can grow and evolve emotionally and spiritually. I love your intuitive and holistic approach to health, and I know it has made a major impact in my life! I feel more like myself that I have in a long time! I now speak my truth! I set boundaries. My true essence is shining through, brighter than ever.

    — Carla
    1:1 Coaching Client

  • Working with you has been the most supportive process I have ever been through.

    I have been through loads of therapy and had many mentors in my life and each of those experiences have added value to my life. If I were to compare, the coaching you have given me has helped me to feel more seen, heard, encouraged, and understood than ANY other modality I have tried - and I have tried a lot! Having you as my coach has felt warm, loving, professional, heart-opening, insightful, and truly DIVINE. 13/10 recommend!

    —Stephanie
    1:1 Coaching Client

  • Stacey is a bright light that consistently shows up and holds space with empathy, encouragement and unconditional Love.

    I inherently trust Stacey to advocate for the goodness and potential of each person’s Soul. Stacey has the humility and knows (like every exceptional healer) the key to great outcomes with others, rests upon her own self-reflection and inner work, which she takes seriously and attends with great care. We should all be so lucky to know and be supported by someone like Stacey.

    — Elisa Romeo
    licensed marriage and family therapist, intuitive and bestselling author

  • Stacey is such an inspiration to me, and I would recommend her to anyone. Her words are powerful, her message is rewarding, and she just has sooo much to give...

    I have been a behavioral health nurse for over five years and I am a board-certified nurse coach, however, a conversation for just 5 minutes with her carries more talent and more wisdom than I could ever imagine. I just want to soak up every little thing she has to say. It is an unbelievable natural gift that she has. I have been in close contact with many psychologists, psychiatrist, practitioners, you name it. Never have I come across such talent in one individual. Stacey is a true empath to her core and that is what it takes to be a true master of the trade. Her work in mental health and self-awareness is unprecedented as I personally have experienced many noetic moments in her presence. She is an open-heart ready receive any challenge and she is ready to give that empowerment and enlightenment you might be looking for. She just lets it flow! She opened an awareness Inside of me I can’t even begin to explain. Stacey is such an inspiration to me, and I would recommend her to anyone. Her words are powerful, her message is rewarding, and She just has soooo much to give. Anyone is who is blessed enough to cross paths with this vibrant soul is a very fortunate being. I know she is going to touch the lives of so many in the most unthinkable and positive of ways. Stacey has a gift and is a gift to this world, and guess what, WE, get to be the receivers of her gift! I have serious gratitude for this one for helping me in more ways than she could ever know!

    — Shannon Bedore
    RN BSN NC-BC

  • This is beyond therapy, this is self-work, reflection and being honest.

    - 1:1 Coaching Client

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